Okay, so I love him, I love him as if we were married, therefore the term 'for better or for worse' applies... I will love him no matter what, I may not like him at times, in fact I may intensely dislike him at times, but I still love him, therefore I WILL support him through this.
But I'm at a complete and utter loss as to what to do, he's gone from being not necessarily positive, but at least not depressed about it to an empty shell, he says he just wants to die, and was talking about best ways to do it, and then he talks about driving us both into the house in front. That's scary. Especially when he starts to accelerate as if he means to do it. Now he just wants to be left alone, which I can understand... I just need to remind myself of 'Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus'... Men like to retreat to their cave and process things, but it's all getting a bit too much.